One huge reason that mental pain turns into suffering is our continuous attempt to reason things out. And with a Cancer Mercury, we can consciously choose to break this vicious cycle by controlling our thoughts and getting in touch with the real feelings – but it may be a little delayed (retrograde!)…
“I don’t miss him/her, I miss who I thought he/she was” —unknown
Know that maybe you have loved a concept, a fantasy in your mind, rather than the person him/herself. With a break up, it’s this illusion of the person we miss – we can save ourselves pain by realising this. Kick your ex out of your mind – and remind yourself that it was a break-up, because it was broken…
Light on…
Kris xx Mistress of New Age