We all have one of these sad dudes hanging around (Fool reversed/King of Cups reversed) – you know what i mean – the jerky, manipulating, interfering, bullying, scorned ex-lover – who can’t let go, steps over the line, has minimum ethics, and does their dirty work behind the scenes – keyboard cowards – too scared to show their small-minded faces. We’ve all experienced this toxic tyrant – the silent stalker – the one who is totally under the illusion that they go unnoticed – trying to suck in every other ex who shows up after our break-ups – too eager to make us the ‘bad guy’ – empathising with venom.You know the type – the one who has a stream of bad relationships behind them, they are never to blame, they wear their professional victim hat to the hilt, pretend to support any needy cast-offs they pull in – lie through their sharp teeth – behaving like total maggots!
Here’s the big twist: we can see them, we know who they are – we are too emotionally intelligent to hook up with their exes and have a subjective slag match about them. Many an ex-of-an-ex has approached me looking for the sympathy vote, but i won’t enter the gutter zone. Although, just to share, I had to laugh-out-loud after connecting with another of my exes last night (like any exes we have had the lovers-to-friendship teething stage), who has the guts to say things to my face, knows there are always two sides to a situation, owns their stuff, and fully has my back! So cool that Ms Karma inevitably catches up with caustic ex-characters, putting the joke on them.
Light on…
Kris xx Mistress of New Age
Hi,
I would like to know what happens if the King of Cups is reversed and the Fool is in its upright position? What’s your interpretation of that?
Thank you
Hi Jennifer
An upright Fool is more likely to involve a calculated risk taken with the King of Cups – who, in his reversed state, is more inclined to operate along a manipulative, deceptive and victim-mentality manner.
Light & Love on…
Kris