KING OF CUPS REVERSED/THE TOWER: WOMAN-BASHER BRAGGER!

You know the type, the one-hit wonder – the bitch-slapper – the one you send packing, who moans they were the perfect specimen of gentleness and goodliness – self-denial personified! The ‘charmingdude’ who has a little too much to drink and proceeds to brag about their violence towards women, seriously shocking their group of open-mouthed listeners! The very deluded person, who normally parades around like a gentleman, suddenly exhibits his true colours.

The one who hides behind a facade of ‘romantic troubadour come perfect house-husband’ – but in reality they are the personified drunken loser, with a diametrically opposed side to them behind closed doors/in the domestic zone.Types such as this are streaming through our community right about now!. They talk the talk, but they are seriously unable to walk it… They are notorious for conning others with their BS, disguising their bad attitude towards women.They generally lack coping skills and roll in anger management issues. Sadly, they repeat the same dysfunctional scenario with one woman, and another woman, followed by another woman – serial abusers. Heed the red alert, girls!

Light on…

Kris xx Mistress of New Age

TAROT TIP: OLD-SCHOOL OUT!

Those original old-school Tarot card meanings (usually sadly accompanying ‘traditional’Tarot decks) tend to reflect the rather negative mentality of the collective consciousness at the time they were written (similar to the Bible – but that’s another show!). Times have vastly changed – it’s the Age of Aquarius, and unlike the last Age of Pisces, the majority of us are not following ‘leaders’ so much, but finding our true following within ourselves, through our personal experiences and via positive modes of self-healing. It’s about individuality in the Aquarian Age, and this needs to be reflected in reading the Tarot. There are no bad or negative Tarot cards – a collection of Swords in a spread does not indicate disaster, just as The Tower in a prominent place does not mean full-blown catastrophe (even the global Tower 9/11 could have been avoided). It so much depends on where these unfairly judged cards are placed in a spread, which cards may be beside or in angle to them, what the question or topic is, who is doing the reading, and so much more.  It is always about the big picture, not one individual card (unless you are pulling one for a quickie!). On par with reading a horoscope chart – taking individual planets or signs on their own has very little value, because other components of the chart could lessen, twist or partially eradicate that influence.We are not at the mercy of the cards or the planets, they are for guidance only – we have choice, we create our own life story. I am not implying that warnings should not be relayed, but telling someone concrete doom-and-gloom is on the horizon, puts them on the road to making this happen.  Giving the option to turn a possible negative into a possible positive needs to accompany any reading. It is not about being right, it is about giving guidance and assisting clients on their path. Instilling fear in a clients’ head is hardly realism, it is actually close to sadism and very ego-based. The days of darkness are over – choose to move with the Light.

2013 make it obscene …

Kris xx Mistress of New Age

Tarot Tip: Two of Cups/The Lovers – Loved-up or Honeymoon Over?

When the Two of Cups or The Lovers card is situated next to or in connection to, say, the Ace of Wands or Ace of Cups, clearly a new relationship is on the horizon or a current relationship has a positive stage coming up  or may shift to the next level.  On the flip side, envision the Lovers or Two of Cups reversed beside, say, The Tower, Death or Eight of Cups – this can indicate a make-or-break time for a relationship, big adjustments need to be made, the rose-coloured glasses come off, or one party is ready to walk. Or else, it may be a one-sided attraction on the cards, or a new contender could be a little toxic or doesn’t tick the right boxes. Play around with your deck, and see how things stand in your relationship or potential one…

Kris xx Mistress of New Age

THE DARK WON’T LAST!

Whether it’s The Tower or Uranus shaking up your system; or maybe the Death card or Saturn offering a harsh reality check – try your hardest to stay on top of things until the storm subsides, you get the lesson & see the Light – it’s waiting patiently in that dark place… Because when things are falling apart in your life, they may just be falling into line Kris xx Mistress of New Age